Then I look through all my previous text messages and analyze them with a fine-toothed comb, wondering what I might have said or done wrong. "I freak out and think about all the things she might be upset with me about. It’s easier said than done, because I usually still end up thinking she’s either not going to answer me at all, or is going to answer with something awful." -Micah A., 25 2. I’m not gonna lie to you-my therapist suggested I try this. Sometimes I even start to plan for positivity, like looking into places we can go to on another date, for example. "I try to think about how great it’s going to be when she texts me back and it’s a positive response.
In that vein, I asked a few other men what runs through their minds during those trying times. Examples of a crucial text include, but are certainly not limited to, iterations of the following: "Would you like to go out with me again sometime?" "What did I do?" and "Who is that guy in all your recent Instagram pictures and why is he so beautiful haha?" I'm not the only guy who thinks all kinds of things while waiting for a response, or who even sometimes flat-out panics. Especially when the relationship (or potential relationship-let’s not get ahead of ourselves here) is in its early stages. One of the craziest times to be inside my mind-and there are many-is when I've just sent a woman an important text message and am waiting for her response.
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